I want to start a conversation about something that is often swept under the table in social networking and social media circles. Cyber bullying. Just like its ‘real life’ version, it happens, it’s real and it’s not always confined to the classroom or school playground. In fact, I’ve come up against cyber bullies three times [...]
Now, regular readers of my blog will know the one of the easiest ways to irritate me is send me a ‘bulk’ message via LinkedIn asking me to attend a social media training session aimed at beginners. So, you could have knocked me down with a feather when I received one of these invites via [...]
by Heather Townsend on March 21, 2012 · 0 comments
Yesterday, I was fortunate enough to work with BNI’s UK and Ireland executive directors. I felt very privileged to be working with such a supportive and positive group of people. It’s also very unusual for networking expert like myself to get the opportunity to work with a diverse group of face-to-face referral marketing experts. Yes, [...]
After training over 200+ professionals in the last 6 months on their networking skills, I noticed that there was a common theme to what people found hard to do when networking. This theme, went something like this: “how do I start and maintain an interesting conversation, whilst not being boring, but use this conversation to [...]
by Heather Townsend on March 13, 2012 · 0 comments
A good friend of mine, Rob Brown has a great quote, which I often recite: “stop counting conversations, and make conversations count” Which is so true. However, in my opinion, so many people spend all their networking effort and time collecting contacts. Whereas, in my view effective business networking is about ‘finding, building and maintaining [...]
continued from yesterday… 4. You may find that many of your ex-school and ex-university friends may now be in a position where they need to grow their network. They actually may welcome the conversation. You lose nothing by asking and remembering to ask permission to have the conversation. 5. Ask a mate to come and [...]
by Heather Townsend on March 1, 2012 · 1 comment
I was running a couple of workshops today for a group of accountants in a top six accountancy practice. Pretty much everyone asked this question; “how do I start to have business conversations with my friends?” The subtext of course being, ‘how do I win work from my friends?’ A valid question, and one that [...]
by Heather Townsend on February 24, 2012 · 0 comments
This is the third and final part of a series of blog posts on how you follow up effectively. In the previous blog post we looked at what you have to do before and immediately after an event to make sure you follow up effectively. Now, going back to meeting an A or B lister. [...]
by Heather Townsend on February 23, 2012 · 0 comments
This is the 2nd part of a 3 part blog series on following up effectively. In this part of the series we look at what you need to do before even get the event and immediately afterwards. Slightly paradoxically, the first thing you have to do before you even meet anyone is work out who [...]
by Heather Townsend on February 22, 2012 · 0 comments
Whenever I deliver face-to-face networking training to lawyers and accountants (or business owners for that matter), I always get asked this question: “How do I follow up effectively?” This normally refers to the pain of having to take time out of their working day to follow up after a networking event. There are two things [...]